Depression & Suicide

The Pursuit of Happiness

” . . . [H]appiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue as the unintended side-effect of one’s personal dedication to a course greater than oneself.” – Victor Frankel Thomas Jefferson’s phrase has long resonated in the minds of Americans.  But only recently has there been extensive research on what makes people happy.  For many years, […]

Trouble Sleeping

The lawyer explained, “just don’t have time to see my doctor.”  Or, the explanation of what he did not have time for could have been, go to support group meetings, see a therapist, play with my kids, or take my spouse out to dinner.  One of the great benefits and burdens of technology has been the […]

The Importance of Trust and Curiosity In Treatment

Turns out that one of the most important aspects to addressing any emotional, mental health or addiction problem is learning to be curious.  Over the years, numerous studies of the application of different psychological theories have failed to show any factor about a particular theory which made the application of that psychological theory better than […]

When Does Meaningful Change Occur?

Malcolm Gladwell has written a book called, The Tipping Point. Gladwell wants to know what made Paul Revere’s ride successful.  How did Hush Puppies, sometime in the late 90’s, become high fashion?  What caused the crime rate in New York City to fall almost in half in five years and for the murder rate to drop 64.3%?  […]

It’s Now Easier for Law Students to Get Help

Every now and then the Lawyer Assistance Program gets a call from a law student at one of our seven North Carolina law schools.  The student would rather talk without giving his or her name.   The LAP person answering the phone says that’s OK and asks what the concerns are. Usually the student is facing […]

A Revealing Survey Sheds Light On The Well-being of Lawyers

Close to ten years ago, the members of the Consortium for Professional Recovery Programs began discussing a collaborative project to survey North Carolina professionals. This consortium, comprised of representatives from medicine, law, dentistry, pharmacy, psychology, nursing, and social work, met regularly to discuss methods to improve the behavioral health issues experienced by their professionals. The […]

There’s Happiness in Healthy Relationships

Recently social scientists have taken a look at the relationship between material well-being and emotional well-being or happiness.  For most of the world, greater levels of material wealth have led to greater levels of perceived emotional well-being, most everywhere, that is, but in the United States.  (The Atlantic, January/February 2003) In the United States, those defining […]

Addicted to Depression

We’ve all heard the phrase “dry drunk, ” referring to a person who is alcoholic and who has stopped drinking, but who has not done anything to address the underlying emotional and psychological issues, which his or her drinking medicated.  Recent experience suggests there may also be something similar for the person who suffers from […]

Coping with Depression

One of the great difficulties these days with contracting a serious illness is that the disease makes us tired, emotional, vulnerable, and uncertain at a time when we most need to be mentally sharp, resourceful and diligent in order to reach out and determine the most effective treatment. This is especially true with diseases like […]

Depression – What Angle Do You See It From?

Writing a short column about how to have good mental health is a challenge.  Each reader who may benefit sees his or her problem from a different perspective.  These different perspectives reflect the multi-faceted nature of a problem like depression. Depression is a disease that is physical, emotional, and spiritual.  If I am suffering from […]

Depression and Suicide: One Bar’s Story

In the years between 1984 and 1993, the Mecklenburg County Bar Association in Charlotte, NC lost eight members to suicide. Put in the context of my arrival as the bar’s first executive director in 1984, this translates to eight suicides in nine years. Seven men and one woman took their lives in that span of […]

Exorcising Your Depression Through Exercise

In a recent column, I mentioned the results of Mary Howerton’s doctoral research.  Mary is the former director of the Mecklenburg County Bar and a member of the Lawyer Assistance Program Board.  Her doctoral research, concerning the quality of well-being of lawyers in North Carolina, revealed that over 27% of the lawyers in her study […]