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                         Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. 
—Albert Einstein 
                          
                          
                          Accommodation or Transformation?
                         The  heart is the literal and metaphorical center of our lives. We have either an  open heart toward life or we may be closed hearted. Our response toward life  may be one full of heartache or heartfelt joy. Acceptance seems to be one of  the characteristics of being open hearted: especially acceptance of ourselves,  gifts and flaws, good and bad. Read More 
                          
                         Success as a Risk Factor for Relapse
                         Often,  great success ushers in the dominating ego. The ego wants to muscle in, take  all the credit, and bask in the limelight. But when the ego-self “feels  invincible” like “nothing can touch me,” we are at a high risk for relapse. Read More 
                          
                          Practice Perspectives 
                         This lawyer  has finally found joy in the practice of law by letting go of perfectionism  and inner self-critique. This new found joy was ushered in once the lawyer accepted  that he/she may make mistakes from time to time. Read More  
                          
                          You Might as Well Face It: You're Addicted to Success
                         Over-identification with work is one of many culprits in the epidemic of recession-related anxiety and depression seen today.  
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                         7 Tips for Dealing with Life if You Can't Afford a Therapist
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                          Something to Consider 
                         Thanks, Robert Frost by David Ray 
                         Do you have hope for the future? 
                           someone asked Robert Frost,  toward the end. 
                           Yes, and even for the past, he replied, 
                           that it will turn out to have  been all right 
                           for what it was, something we  can accept, 
                           mistakes made by the selves we  had to be, 
                           not able to be, perhaps, what we  wished, 
                           or what looking back half the  time it seems 
                           we could so easily have been, or  ought... 
                           The future, yes, and even for  the past, 
                           that it will become something we  can bear. 
                           And I too, and my children, so I  hope, 
                           will recall as not too heavy the  tug 
                           of those albatrosses I sadly  placed 
                           upon their tender necks. Hope  for the past, 
                           yes, old Frost, your words  provide that courage, 
                           and it brings strange peace that  itself passes 
                           into past, easier to bear  because 
                           you said it, rather casually, as  snow 
                           went on falling in Vermont years  ago.
                            
                           
                       
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